Sunday Nov 9th Did not go to meeting to day on account of
Bridgets being sick. Expected Mr Ames home at noon to carry
me this afternoon but he went off electioneering and
forgot all about it. This evening have been to Mrs
Swains with Mr Ames & Susan Her nurse is there
and her brothers wife and daughter of about Susans
age Mr & Mrs Meader returned home about a week since
Not only did Oakes Ames stop in Canton for a Whig meeting on Saturday, but he spent Sunday afternoon “electioneering” and forgot to go home at noon to take Evelina to church for the afternoon service. In personal terms, this was not an auspicious beginning to his political career, but it was certainly indicative of the wholeheartedness and zeal with which he approached politics. If Oakes and Evelina had, in fact, reached an understanding about his getting into politics – about which we can only conjecture – we have to wonder if that understanding had already been violated. Yet Evelina’s diary is not particularly dispirited; she writes matter-of-factly and without obvious annoyance. Perhaps she already understood and forgave her husband’s capacity for preoccupation.
After missing church in the morning because of a sick servant and in the afternoon because of an absent-minded husband, Evelina must have been pleased at last to go out in the evening. She, Oakes and their daughter Susie paid a call on Ann and John Swain, a younger couple who were relatively new in town. New parents, their infant son was being tended by a nurse, while two relatives, the last remainders of a crowd who had arrived to tend at the birth, were still visiting. Ellen Meader, a little girl about Susie’s age, was there with her mother, Sarah Bliss Meader, wife of Ann Swain’s brother, Reuben Meader.
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One reader commented: I think she sounds quite peeved! Love it. I am sure that’s about as emotive as she ever gets in these pages.
I’m wondering if they have had conversations before about being gone all the time, and if this is part of the entry a few weeks ago when she said that they had a “talk”
Because their “talk” took place after Oakes had been away so often, you may be spot-on about what must have been increasing dissatisfaction on Evelina’s part. Today’s misstep won’t be the only one on Oakes’s part, either.